Edited by Nu-Buntu since apparently AZZ and Datawolf cannot distinguish between humor and misogyny. The post was not intended to denigrate the female gender in any way. Sorry you guys didn't get the humor.
Edited by Nu-Buntu since apparently AZZ and Datawolf cannot distinguish between humor and misogyny. The post was not intended to denigrate the female gender in any way. Sorry you guys didn't get the humor.
Last edited by Nu-Buntu; May 17th, 2005 at 12:01 AM.
Lovely women? You must be a "beefy" man.Originally Posted by Nu-Buntu
It is ironic that this post is exactly the kind of stuff that drives women away from the community. Please think before you post. If you have nothing to say, please do not say anything.
AZZ,
Lighten up. It was meant in jest. This is just the kind of reaction I figured I might get from some with no sense of humor. Did you not read the part about how I am glad the women's perspective is getting a forum. Sheesh!
It doesn't matter what you meant it to be, many women might find that offensive. You've obviously never had a girlfriend before.Originally Posted by Nu-Buntu
Just because you postfix it with a smiley and a (DUCKING) doesn't mean it's anymore acceptable. You're being immature. Stop.You mean the women can use Ubuntu to operate the stove and iron? (DUCKING)
Originally Posted by panickedthumb
I think this project is a great idea. As evidenced already by forum members I will refrain from naming, there is a common attitude among morons toward geeky women.
<3 the Kass
Not in a long time. My wife of 32 years doesn't let me have girlfriends.Originally Posted by dataw0lf
I have also edited out the original post, since apparently humor doesn't come across well in this medium. The only place it lives on is AZZ and Datawolf's replies, so it is up to you to edit if you so desire.
Also FYI, I am involved in a couple of women's rights organizations, even as a male, so for anyone to act like I am am misogynist of some sort shows a total lack of understanding of the intent of the post. Oversensitivity and political correctness are in an overabundance.
Last edited by Nu-Buntu; May 17th, 2005 at 12:06 AM.
I think there is just a little overreaction to the comments made. My wife read it and found it hilarious, there are some I guess who could find it offensive but then mostly anything said could be construed as negative depending on the reader. Written words have the shortcoming of not being able to convey tone, facial expression all of which are key in communication. I don't think that Nu-Buntu's intention was to offend and really censuring for the remarks uncalled for.Originally Posted by Nu-Buntu
Anyways onto what this forum is all about Welcome to all the women in the Ubuntu community always nice to have the female perspective and nice idea.
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Originally Posted by jodef
I found it rather humorous as well. However, the problem exists that we're, in the forums and the Ubuntu community as a whole, are trying to create an environment where as many people as possible are happy. This means erring on the more 'politically correct' side of things often. Nu-Buntu's comments could very easily be taken in an offending way. Whether it'd be an overreaction or not is beside the point.
On another related topic, I believe that the moderators here don't get enough respect often enough. This isn't a dictatorship, but if a moderator comments on something he or she finds offensive (ie, against the Forum Guidelines and Rules), don't try to troll it on further. Can you honestly say that you don't think people could take offense to your original post, Nu-Buntu? This community's base is built on respect, please show it to the people who strive hard to keep it that way.
Originally Posted by dataw0lfThat proves d-wolf last posts are correct. We should drop this type of jokes like a bad habit. I made one a couple of weeks ago and the end result was some people getting offended.Originally Posted by Ubuntu Code of Conduct
Sylvia: Look at what you've done to him!
Christof: I have given Truman the chance to lead a normal life. The world, the place you live in, is the sick place.
Chosing to say "lovely women" is this context can be interpreted as condescending.
Making jokes is deffinitely in bad taste. If you wan't to post jokes, use the community chat.
There is nothing to discuss here. There is no argument to being told what you did was in bad taste. Let's please forget about it and move on....
If anyone would like an idea of the type of content that may be more appropriate here, please take a look at the debian-women mailing list.
http://lists.debian.org/debian-women/
I am sure thatre are plently of other examples, and perhaps this is not the exact direction this forum may take, but may it serve as a better guideline than the previous few posts.
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