Your grub file needs a little edit.
Boot into Xubuntu
Open a terminal and enter:-
Code:
sudo nano /etc/default/grub
Enter your password
Code:
GRUB_DEFAULT=0
GRUB_TIMEOUT_STYLE=menu #originally hidden
GRUB_TIMEOUT=10
GRUB_DISTRIBUTOR=`lsb_release -i -s 2> /dev/null || echo Debian`
GRUB_CMDLINE_LINUX_DEFAULT="quiet splash"
GRUB_CMDLINE_LINUX=""
ctrl+o to save and ctrl+x to exit
Reboot
Any good?