I much prefer LXQt/Lubuntu over GNOME, even LXDE/Lubuntu over GNOME (3). I also prefer XFCE & MATE over GNOME but it's a personal preference. Which will be best for you, only you can decide.
Yes a faster computer will run faster if running Lubuntu over GNOME, however the difference isn't anywhere near as noticeable (or noticeable at all) to users as it's often just fewer wait-cycles of a super-fast-cpu waiting for input from the human, where as with slower boxes the human is waiting for their boxes.
The base of all Ubuntu systems is the same, so out-of-the-box differences are minor in regards hardware-support, and if something works in one, it'll work with others in almost every case, so Ubuntu, Xubuntu & Lubuntu will have the same support for the same release. The difference is the desktop or GUI over that base (or no gui for ubuntu server). Different releases, eg. 18.04/2018-April release may have different hardware-support to say 19.04 which came out a year later, but you can add HWE (hardware-enablement stack support) to 18.04 to close this difference...
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