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    Re: Girl Troubles IRL... -.-

    Girl trouble and you post in a linux forum?

    Got my heart broken 3 years ago, still think about her all the time, still hurts. It's like all loss, it doesn't get any easier but you evolve and adapt so that you can function normaly again and it doesn't destroy you inside anymore then you will eventually find someone who loves you back because if she doesn't love you back then she was never worth it to begin with.

    Feel like I should leave a final thought or something

    *goes to read CharlesA's 'getting over her' link*
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    When you are older and the hair you have left is gray, you will have forgotten her name.

    But you will probably remember having brought up your girl problems on a computer geek forum.

    Whether you will laugh about it or be embarrassed about it remains to be seen...
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    Re: Girl Troubles IRL... -.-

    Quote Originally Posted by mastablasta View Post
    2. there are almost 2 women for each man. so i should just relax as eventually i will find a still single soulmate that would like me back.
    What? Where?
    Men outnumber women in most places. Except with people that are really old because woman live longer..


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    "Love" has many facets. Sometimes it's what you feel, sometimes it's what you do, and sometimes it's something else again.

    Don't give up when what you feel takes a nose dive: it took me 30 years to meet and notice Mrs Lisati, and 20 years later, in spite of (because of?) encountering a number of potholes on the journey, we're still together.
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    Quote Originally Posted by greatsirkain View Post
    Girl trouble and you post in a linux forum?

    Got my heart broken 3 years ago, still think about her all the time, still hurts. It's like all loss, it doesn't get any easier but you evolve and adapt so that you can function normaly again and it doesn't destroy you inside anymore then you will eventually find someone who loves you back because if she doesn't love you back then she was never worth it to begin with.
    Its all about the point of view.
    About 3 years ago I was also badly in love. She didn't like me "that" way.
    But she was nice about it.
    Nothing much happened, but the little niceness I got is still one of the best memories I ever got. Still get a good warm feeling and a smile on my face when I think about it.

    Funny thing is that if I had been 10 years younger I probably wouldn't have been able to see the niceness and would only have seen the fact that she didn't like me "that" way and that I could not have her...

    And LOL. Linux forums may not be the best place to ask help for girl problems. Unless they are about dealing with not getting the girl.
    With hints about how to get a girl I would google David Deangelo....
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    Re: Girl Troubles IRL... -.-

    Quote Originally Posted by lisati View Post
    "Love" has many facets. Sometimes it's what you feel, sometimes it's what you do, and sometimes it's something else again.

    Don't give up when what you feel takes a nose dive: it took me 30 years to meet and notice Mrs Lisati, and 20 years later, in spite of (because of?) encountering a number of potholes on the journey, we're still together.
    You pretty much nailed it.
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    Re: Girl Troubles IRL... -.-

    Ok so I have just one more problem. What if I somehow p.i.s.s her off (excuse my language) and she tells my good friend? Could he not be my friend anymore afterwards?

    Overall though, wow guys, this was all really deep and helpful, I can already feel myself coming back together. Thank you all for your kind help, it has helped me so much. I guess a lot can happen in just two days right? ;D

    And as the TF2 Spy always says: Well, now the moment has passed, BACK TO WORK!
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    Re: Girl Troubles IRL... -.-

    Quote Originally Posted by QIII View Post
    When you are older and the hair you have left is gray, you will have forgotten her name.

    But you will probably remember having brought up your girl problems on a computer geek forum.

    Whether you will laugh about it or be embarrassed about it remains to be seen...
    ^^ Really!

    Keep it up!!! I believe you, that it is hard now. Talking about it is a huge step, which is a healthy way to dispel negative emotions and allow one to move on. That you chose, to do this on a Linux forum is priceless. You know you are a geek when ... Lol. Be thankful it wasn't a divorce with kids involved. That really bites.


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    Young man... stop wondering about all the 'what ifs' that may come your way; that only leads to an ulcer. Let what's in the past be in the past and get on with enjoying your life. If these friends are true friends they will stick with you no matter what. Go do something different (take a tandem parachute jump or visit an art gallery) and let time pass. Life is good, real good... go grab yourself some.

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    Re: Girl Troubles IRL... -.-

    Some day you'll be saying something like this to someone who's actually right for you:

    Looking back from where I stand tonight
    I wouldn't change a thing about my life
    Wrong turns I had to take back in those crazy years
    Could not have been mistakes if they brought me here

    'Cause all my roads have led me to
    This night, this love I share with you
    And though the road was never smooth
    Life has made me someone who
    Could be the right someone for you

    I don't regret a single broken heart
    That taught me what love is and what it's not
    Someone must have planned our two paths would cross
    I couldn't see it then but I was never lost

    'Cause all my roads have led me to
    This night, this love I share with you
    And though the road was never smooth
    Life has made me someone who
    Could be the right someone for you

    Detours, dead ends, endless explorations
    You were my only destination

    'Cause all my roads have led me to
    This night, this love I share with you
    And though the road was never smooth
    Life has made me someone who
    Could be the right someone for you


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