this fix is for Lubuntu 12.10 xrdp
I was able to fix mine by doing the following from home directory:

the file i edited was located /home/jon/.xsession

i added:


after this it worked!! and that was after several hours of trying to figure it out. so do the following at the prompt to fix:

"gedit .xsession"
add the line "startlubuntu"
save and exit
restart and it works.