Thanks, for sharing how things are going Primefalcon. I have been thinking of you and your wife throughout the day. I'm sure others have been too and are just as happy to hear from you.
Are you eliciting your support systems, to help you through this time? Too often, we men think we need to be the strong ones and tend to put off looking after ourselves. Though, just by your taking the initiative to share with us, shows that you have the inherent propensity to reach out to others for support. Keep it up. I don't mean just us, but with friends, family, and professional people, who are able and willing to support.
Give my best to your wife, when she is more able to talk.