I've now been dealing with the aftermath of meningoencephalitis for nearly eleven years and many things have improved but other things are simply impossible.
Patience and acceptance are IMHO the most supportive things a loved one can do. Trying to think of the best way to put this ............
A lot of times recovering from a physical injury it's best to push really hard to speed recovery.
With a brain injury just the opposite is true. If you push too hard it can have an adverse effect.
And, very important, you must learn to accept new limitations or you can get very depressed.
Sorry for that rant. Just keep loving Mrs Lisati