Window focus in Xfce

[Person98]

I recently upgraded to 10.4 and now when i scroll on a window it gives focus to that window. how do i put it back to requiring a click to focus? the only options in the settings manager is click to focus (selected) or focus follows mouse. This has been bugging me as i much preferred the old system so i could scroll through a non highlighted window while keeping focus as to type in another.

Thank you

sorry figured it out, it was under window manager tweaks, "focus on any mouse button"