I installed Kubuntu 13.10 and I did not like the login manager because kdm did not have a default login user by default. Now I know it probably can be configured but I ventured forward with my instinct. I used the google search engine for login managers and found one called "slim".
I installed it with
>sudo apt-get install slim
It asks for what default login manager I wanted to use so I chose slim.
I rebooted it and up came the new login manager but I had to type in my user name in the input field so I had to look in the docs
I found out the configuration file is not under /usr. It is under /etc/slim.conf
so I used my favorite text editor and typed this in
>sudo kate /etc/slim.conf
I edited the config file like this example by taking out the hash or pound symbol ('#')
# default user, leave blank or remove this line
# for avoid pre-loading the username.
I then rebooted and it filled out the input user name field so all I have to do is enter the user password.
If you do this and want to revert back to kdm just reinstall it.