I notice with my received IMs that need attention they're coming up with a red triangle, which is dark and harder to see than the blue triangle I had before. I have no idea what I did that changed the color, but I can't seem to figure it out. I tried different clients as well as color schemes... everything is red. I have no idea where this setting would be.... Any insight?
EDIT - Ya know, I thought I checked this last night, but I guess not. I just changed my "desktop theme" on my desktop computer and it was red. I was taken back for a second and changed the theme. Sure enough, it changed to blue under the other theme. I guess my exhausted state of mind when I posted this didn't help... as I THOUGHT I checked it, but I guess not. But hey, marked as solved in case someone else runs into this.