Remmina hangs when I try to connect to 12.04 from 12.04 via VNC

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First: I'm not sure that I'm posting to the correct forum. Apologies in advance for that.

I have two machines, both running Ubuntu 12.04. One is a normal desktop connected to my network via WiFi. The other is an older desktop running headless and on a wired connection to the same LAN.

I use the headless machine as a light home server for storage and the like. I would like to be able to manage it on my main machine via VNC (or something similar), but I've had limited success. It worked for awhile using Remmina, but now, when I try to connect to the headless machine, Remmina (and all other clients I've tried) just hang on the "Connecting" dialog (see attachment).

I know that the network is working okay, because I have an SMB share on the headless machine that is mounted every time the other machine boots, and I can still access and modify files on that share.

I've found that if I force the headless machine to shut down and reboot it, I can access it for awhile. Eventually, though, the connection dialog will start stalling and I haven't identified any activity that gets me to that point, other than closing the VNC connection and trying it again awhile later.

I'm at a loss. Where should I go from here? Is there an error log somewhere that I could post?

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Well, my limited abilities haven't gotten me much further. I'm pretty sure it's not the VNC client software. I've tried Remmina, Vinagre, xvnc4viewer, and something else the name of which escapes me. All essentially behave the same: they try to connect, but just sit there trying. Attachments 1 shows this happening with xvnc4viewer.

I tried forcing a shutdown on the server and restarting. Attachment 2 shows Vinagre trying to connect after the restart. What happened now? That error message is new. Remmina is failing after the restart as well.

I keep reading about port 5900. Do I need to port forward this on my router? FYI, I'm doing this on a local LAN without SSH and I have no plans to make this available over the internet.

I'm off to restart my client machine and see if that helps. Anybody have suggestions? I'm frackin' lost.

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Just rebooted my client machine and tried to connect: no go. I guess I'm going to have to scrape up a spare monitor and see what's up on the server. Dang.

Any ideas? Anybody?

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New thought: I have experienced generally low speeds on my home network for the past few days and I'm not sure whether it's the router or my internet connection. Is there something I can check/test on my router to eliminate network issues as the problem with my VNC? I have DD-WRT running on my Buffalo router.

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Man, it's quiet in here. I feel like I'm talking to myself.

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Shameless Bump.

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I notice your original connection dialog has both IP and an unqualified hostname - which are you actually specifying when you set up the connection? If your local hostname resolution relies on avahi and that's got screwed up somehow (possibly hinted to by the recent popup) then it may not be getting the right IP

You could possibly confirm all's well on that front by pinging the hosntame and checking it responds with the expected IP?

Beyond that I would SSH into the server and start poking around there - the VNC connection log should be in ~/.vnc/hostname:display.log or somesuch - you can also use ps to check that the VNC server really is running, check UFW status, netstat to confirm LISTEN on 5900 etc.