Re: where do i find my spam mails?
Open up your mail log and search by date and time of when you expected the password email to hit your server.
If you don't know or remember the date you can open the log in "real time" and request the password again.
tail -f /var/log/mail.log
Then request the password and watch the log to see if it's hitting your server and what is happening.
It is likely your server is just rejecting the spam.
Nothing is ever easy, but if it is difficult you must be doing it wrong.