Well, now i really hate myself. So before Oldfred posted his most recent post i searched up and found the boot repair option (the one at source forge), so i burned it to a disk and booted from that. The first time around it didn't work to fix anything, so in my rage i chose sda3, hoping that would do something, but now........when i boot up it gives me "bootmgr is missing press ctrl+alt_delete to restart", i tried to put in the windows 7 CD, but that just gives me "press any key to boot from CD or DVD" followed by the bootmgr is missing dialogue, not allowing me to do anything. Im really hating myself for making the problem worse. So thank you for sticking with me.