hey you know what worked for me:

sudo gedit /boot/grub/menu.lst

and type after
### END DEBIAN AUTOMAGIC KERNELS LIST

title Windows
map (hd0) (hd1)
map (hd1) (hd0)
rootnoverify (hd0,0)
chainloader +1


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when I booted and pressed esc, to select the option that says windows, I typed, "E" for edit at the line "rootnoverify (hd0,0)" and then "B" for boot and tried different combinations (0.1 0.2 1.0 1.1)
and the one that worked was
"rootnoverify (hd1,0)" that booted into windows, so i let it do a complete boot and the rebooted that and went into ubuntu back again to

sudo gedit /boot/grub/menu.lst


and change the line

rootnoverify (hd0,0)

to

rootnoverify (hd1,0)

and now it works

I would like to thank the academy, its an honor to be nominated

PS thanx forum and freenode #ubuntu