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    Re: I am not liked in my class by a certain student for reasons beyond me

    Prolly best to just move on...
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    Re: I am not liked in my class by a certain student for reasons beyond me

    Just be aware when you do that he might throw a punch at you.
    Should have posted that in caps for liability reasons.

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    his is a form of bullying it happens to many people, not just you
    It's college, not "Heathers". Hit him with one of those huge, overpriced hardcover textbooks.

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    Re: I am not liked in my class by a certain student for reasons beyond me

    why do you even care? do your own thing.

    I dont get people who feel that everybody should be their friend and get all offended when reality comes knocking.

    My problem tends to be the exact opposite. There are many people at work i simply don't want to get to know, and when they realize this, they get offended, then they get on my case (as if i started some sort of personal vendetta)

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    Re: I am not liked in my class by a certain student for reasons beyond me

    Quote Originally Posted by Koh Kook Loon View Post
    Wait for hime to be alone and go up to him and stare him in the eye for 10 second and see how he respond. He may stare back at you, move away or ask what you want. if he ask you what you want than you tell him how you feel and why he hate you so much and try to resolve it there and than. Just be aware when you do that he might throw a punch at you.
    Growing up this was always my way. I was never large, but always found that the move from passive aggressive to action to be quite liberating. Doing this in a situation where its just the two of you, is good. Though -- my advice is not the best, as I was sent home at least a half dozen times for fighting.

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    Re: I am not liked in my class by a certain student for reasons beyond me

    Be careful what you wish for.
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    Re: I am not liked in my class by a certain student for reasons beyond me

    Welcome to the isms club, don't let social norms of acceptance from yourself or the other, be a controlling factor in semi-rational always subjective thought, objectivity is a nice theory but hardly exits.
    http://phrontistery.info/isms.html

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    Re: I am not liked in my class by a certain student for reasons beyond me

    *sigh* so glad I'm not in high school any more.

    extend Ki>>move off line>>blend>>take balance>>harmony

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    Re: I am not liked in my class by a certain student for reasons beyond me

    Wait is this college or highschool?

    Here's a little advice. The guys probably being a jerk to get a reaction out of you. By quitting the the class/club you're letting him win. Usually if you act like a loser doesn't exist eventually they get bored and move on.
    Last edited by Crunchy the Headcrab; April 10th, 2010 at 01:38 PM.

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    Re: I am not liked in my class by a certain student for reasons beyond me

    Buy a leather glove and when he does something again that hurts you( if he is not facing you tap him on the shoulder ) say: "You have impugned my dignity. I challenge you to a duel!" *glove-slap* (You should come up with a duel which you are really good in just in case he accepts the challenge)

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    Re: I am not liked in my class by a certain student for reasons beyond me

    You're an adult, act like one, and deal with your problem. If you can't deal with it, then just operate in a way that it doesn't affect your work. Its college, you are there to learn, not participate in a social club. All throughout your life people will dislike you for the color of your skin, the shape of your body, the way your hair looks, thew way you talk, move, think, work, ect. People are in the game of disliking each other. Most people have the maturity to not let their dislike show, but not everyone. If you are unable to perform your task as a student because of someone else, then you do not deserve a college degree, or the job opportunities that come with it.

    Think about it. Would you want to hire someone who quits because another person is mean to them? Work harder, try harder, and learn to give a flying **** what some little **** thinks about you. He has no power of your life unless you give it to him.
    Last edited by Warpnow; April 10th, 2010 at 03:07 PM.
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