I kept moving a topic or two outside of the arena that most people view them in.
It is a problem of mine, I try to step back & look at the relationships of the elements of a discussion from different perspectives & then I try to get other people to do the same.
I should have backed off. I didn't realise that Nick is it would seem quite vulnerable to having this done to topics. I think he must have had an idea of how he wanted the social group to function & some of us (me in particular it would seem) had different ideas.
I'm as surprised as everyone else that things have come to this.
Knowing what I know now, I would have just stayed away & let others enjoy the group as Nick wanted it to be.
Too late now I'm sorry to say.
Anyway, if you want somewhere to have a chat about anything, come over to our tiny little spiralinear.org forum? You will always be most welcome.
What the hell did the two of you do?